LOVE and To Be LOVED

To love is nice..
To be loved is very nice..
To be loved by someone is great..
To be loved by someone you loved is the greatest feeling the heart can ever have....

So philosophical is it? Well, remember when we were kids,,, we all had dream..
I want to be a fireman;
I want to be in the navy ... and so.
Then we go all grow up,  achieving some of the things we ever so wanted in life.
Then its seems that we need love, needed to be loved, to be cuddle, to have all those warmth in the arms of our loved one.
We get married,, soon the baby comes into the picture ..
Then you realise this is when your personal joys takes a backseat. We give our utmost attention and love to our new addition... but then soon you find a big gap in your life. It’s not like nobody loves u but then the same feeling of loved and being loved is slowly walking away.
Loneliness starts to creep in, before matter of time the gap between u and ur loved one seems a mile away.  Not everyone realise that the moment u have an addition to your life, they seem to take the life journey of the young ones more seriously and painstakingly chart the course of their life. Your own individual lives takes a beating and to recharge it is going to take a hell of lot of effort.
Why do people in love and relationship failed to realise that love and being loved is a journey which will take a lot of beating before it finally reaches its destination.